Strangers Again

STAGES OF A RELATIONSHIP
Stage1: The Meeting
Stage2: The Chase
Stage3: The Honeymoon
Stage4: Comfortable
Stage5: Tolerance
Stage5: Downhill
Stage6: The Break up

-and suddenly you will be strangers again.
Reminds us that not all love story is a fairy tale..
There will always be two options. Its either BREAKING UP or GETTING MARRIED..
which one will you choose?

Jar of Hearts by Christina Perri

"i am not a singer nor a composer, (as in! music really hates me, swear!) but I always feel relived hearing songs that really strikes me with every words on it. And in this moment, this song reminds me of something and someone. It is not about my love story, just to clear things up. But whoever she is, I will always wish her to have a LONG TERM HAPPINESS. :)"

SONG DEFINITION

This song is about a girl would loved a boy with every part of her and he loved her deeply but the boy didn't fully understand what he had when he was with her, breaking up was the hardest decision she had to make, she could see he felt something for someone else even though he said he still loved her and would deny any feelings for the other girl, but he wanted to see if there was something better and not settle down just yet for he was only so young, so after she had enough of the lies she left him and he chose to purse the other girl, but all the while his first love was on his mind. She was still heart broken and still loved him, but hates what he did to her at the same time. even looking at him brought memories of what they had together, and she felt as though no one could replace what she had with him. a year goes by and throughout the year the boy stays with the other girl but knows it was not anywhere near the magic he had with his first love. he comes back into her life wanting her advice and help with what he should do, wanting his first love to tell him that she still needs him. but she has learnt never to trust him again, she will never let someone throw her away to find something better and then come to the realisation that she was the best he could have ever had and expect her to jump straight back into his arms. he hurt her so deeply that just coming back into her life wont fix it, she wishes she never met him so he could have never hurt her, wishes he didnt have any control over her, and wishes she never fell in love with a liar. who does he think he is coming back into her life after lying and choosing someone else to replace her, it will never work because of all the hurt he caused, all the lies he said and the hate created. the scar will be with her for the rest of her life but its a reminder to her to never let someone steal a part of her again, never to be tricked into believing empty words but mostly it is a reminder to never be tricked by him again. the scar is a learning curve so she can only improve what she has from now on and as soon as there is doubt she will let her heart take over and end it before she gets another gash that should have been prevented from the start.

A Perfect Day

"i copied this article from another blog before I started to create my own, unfortunately I was not able to copy the link and follow her blog but this one makes me "kilig" while thinking to be with someone having our own Perfect Day. :) " 

 A perfect day does not necessarily start with a perfect morning.  It can start in the late afternoon with someone whom you would like to share the day with.   

It can be: 

.. as crazy as one-and-a-half motorcycle ride in a heavy rain just to have a Pizza Hut’s Cheezy Pops experience.

.. a casual conversation of different types of mushrooms which will make you a millionaire.

.. a simple argument whether little baby boys can undergo ballet lessons.

.. a simple trip to the Burger Machine stand for a cheesy bacon delight.

.. doing stupid things together and then, laugh about them later.

.. listening to music while joking around.

.. a three-hour spur of the moment drive just to have a taste of Starbucks.

And, it can be just looking at someone’s face.

Just like any other day, the perfect day has to end.  It is how the system works to keep things in their perfect balance.  At the end of the day, all we have is the memory that will make an ordinary day perfect for as long as we live.